A Different View of My Past Work

January 28, 2019

I've received intense criticism and condemnation for my past work as a so-called conversion therapist. I believe it is fair for me now to post a very different view of my work. I received the following message last night from a man I knew in the ex-gay community. I post it here with his permission.

"Dave, Hey I just wanted to reach out to you personally and thank you for all the good you offered me. I know we are choosing different paths and it has caused some mixed emotions in me, and yet I will forever be grateful to you. You literally saved my life and offered me so much healing, strength and support. Some of the most sacred moments in my life were in your office and I will cherish those moments the rest of my life as I truly began to experience the healing power of the Atonement doing therapy with you. Never once was the focus on changing my orientation and I hate the way the media is talking about all of this. And I hate that they dont acknowledge all the men you did help. Thank you for what you offered me. I know there are many other men who will forever be grateful for what you offered them. My prayers are with you as you venture on your next phase of life."

I've received similar messages from men. It all must be seen and understood in what will probably become a difficult, painful, and ultimately healing process. I love the idea of being part of that.